as I promised, I'm gonna post something relevant about a breakthrough in my friendship.
well, Wednesday I've held something like a discussion group among my friends to talk about my birthday's thing. if you read my previous post, you knew that something happened during my birthday and mostly is friends issue. 
on Wednesday that day, I talk and told my every feeling for ever single incident that happened that day to my friends. I told them I'm sad, angry, hate them and all the negative comments. mostly I do the talking part and they be the listener. I'm trying to be wise while talking sensitive issue to them, as I strategist to put good word in front and ending. those negative thing I put in the middle to tell them, and yeah I think you guys understand why I plan to have this strategy.  
I told them I'm glad that this incident happen because  in our gang we never fought before, and I think this is a lesson to all of us. luckily we fought in silence type instead of those scold like crazy type cause I personally prefer silent type. and one thing very important that is all of us did cried for this fought.
I told them we cry because all of us are worth to cry for each other. tears are really precious, if someone cry for you means you are precious in his or her eye and worth for that person to cry for you. 
in conclusion, we have a nice chat and is all done now! 
 
 
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